Where Intention meets connection
The Bashert Exchange is a private, highly curated, Jewish registry focused on intentional, values-driven matchmaking. Through a hands-on approach, we facilitate introductions within our exclusive database and in collaboration with trusted, established matchmakers. Our mission is to foster meaningful connections that strengthen the Jewish community and lead to lasting relationships and families.
The Bashert Exchange is a modern take on Jewish dating. It falls somewhere between dating apps and traditional matchmaking: more personal than an app, more accessible than traditional matchmaking, and rooted in community. Members are not left to swipe, search, or navigate the process alone. Tammy personally advocates for each member by looking for thoughtful mitzvah matches within her curated database and, when appropriate, presenting members to trusted collaborating matchmakers for potential introductions to their clients. Rather than waiting to be discovered, members benefit from having someone actively thinking about them, championing them, and looking for meaningful opportunities within The Bashert Exchange and through a growing network of trusted matchmaking professionals
In the wake of October 7, Tammy felt a profound calling to contribute more meaningfully to the Jewish community. Matchmaking—something that has always come naturally to her—became a clear and purposeful path forward. Guided by persistence, a deep sense of Jewish pride, and a unique ability to cultivate meaningful relationships within the industry, she has built a trusted network of matchmakers and collaborators dedicated to creating intentional, high-quality connections.
DATING UPDATES
COLLABORATIONS WITH TRUSTED MATCHMAKERS
45
Suggested introductions
4
Under consideration
16
Led to a date
The current stats are from February 19th-April 25th.
3
Led to a relationship
Real results from The Bashert Exchange
The Bashert Exchange proudly offers two different membership options. Our passive membership is at a low cost, allowing Tammy to interact with your information within the database. Our active membership is great for Jewish singles who are serious about finding their bashert. An active membership allows Tammy to actively match you with other database members, as well as work with other matchmakers to find your bashert.
“I have had a fantastic experience working with Tammy Salis at the Bashert Exchange. She truly listens, cares, and puts in the effort to understand her members and helps them build real connections. Tammy is always proactive and clearly wants her clients to succeed. It is evident from everything she does that she cares deeply about her members’ well-being and success in the dating world. I highly recommend Bashert Exchange to anyone seeking a personal, professional Jewish matchmaking experience.” Scott. M.
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Rooted in Community
Following the growth of trusted Jewish communities such as Bagels & Bae, a clear need emerged for a more private, structured pathway to introduction.
The Bashert Exchange was created to meet that need.