A More Personal Way to Find Your Bashert
The Bashert Exchange is not a dating app. It's a modern, affordable alternative to traditional matchmaking for Jewish singles who want more than endless swiping but whose budget may not allow for the high cost of traditional matchmaking.
We believe every Jew deserves the opportunity to find love, regardless of their budget.
Unlike dating apps, you're not left to navigate the process alone. Every member is personally reviewed, and I actively look for compatible matches within my curated database. When appropriate, I also advocate for members by presenting them to trusted matchmaking colleagues across the country for consideration with their clients, creating opportunities most singles would never have access to on their own.
I collaborate weekly with a growing network of trusted matchmaking colleagues, always looking for thoughtful introductions and meaningful mitzvah matches.
My goal isn't to collect profiles. It's to help build Jewish families.
Every introduction is made thoughtfully, with kindness, discretion, and intention. Every member is treated as an individual, not a profile in a database.
If you are looking for Traditional Matchmaking,
I am happy to refer you to a trusted colleague based on location and budget.
If you're ready to stop swiping and start dating with purpose, let me help.
❤️ Building Jewish families, one introduction at a time.
DATING UPDATES
COLLABORATIONS WITH TRUSTED MATCHMAKERS
SUGGESTED INTRODUCTIONS
97
UNDER CONSIDERATION
5
LED TO A DATE
27
LED TO A RELATIONSHIP
5
Real results from The Bashert Exchange
March 2026-September 2026
The Bashert Exchange offers two membership options, because not everyone is looking for the same level of matchmaking support.
Community Membership is our lower-cost option. Your profile becomes part of The Bashert Exchange’s curated, all-Jewish database and can be considered when Tammy is searching for a potential match.
Active Membership is for Jewish singles who want a more hands-on approach. Tammy gets to know you personally, actively looks for potential matches within The Bashert Exchange database, and advocates for you through her network and collaborations with other matchmakers.
Two different levels of support.
One goal: helping Jewish singles find their bashert.
“I have had a fantastic experience working with Tammy Salis at the Bashert Exchange. She truly listens, cares, and puts in the effort to understand her members and helps them build real connections. Tammy is always proactive and clearly wants her clients to succeed. It is evident from everything she does that she cares deeply about her members’ well-being and success in the dating world. I highly recommend Bashert Exchange to anyone seeking a personal, professional Jewish matchmaking experience.”
-Scott. M.

